I don’t want pronouns that tell you I’m nonbinary.
I want pronouns that tell you I’m a person.
I want pronouns that don’t remind me of my culture’s need to bucket everyone into “man” and “woman” the moment we look at someone.
Gender is important, but only because we’ve made it so. We’re obsessed with it. We’ve built our language around it to the point that it’s hard to opt out.
Why is my gender your business?